I know it was yesterday, but nevertheless.
Two weeks ago I went to see a production of
Sweeney Todd: The Demon Barber of Fleet Street as done by Rachel's school (she was stage manager). They did a fantastic job, it was way beyond any high school dramatic performance that I'd ever seen before. Everything was well done, the acting, the singing, the music. Top-notch all around. So good I couldn't shave for the whole week afterwards.
Later that week Rachel broke up with me. I had been half expecting it for a week or so, so I wasn't that surprised. It's a little more complicated than that. We're still on amicable terms and we're still hanging out. It did bring me low but I'm getting back to myself all right. I'm either just really persistent(ly stupid) or maybe there's still something there, I'm not much in a position to say.
The Friday after that I went to see a couple of bands perform, because some of them were comprised of my friends. I invited Gabo and Rachel along, and Rachel brought her friend Mike, because he's also friends with someone I know in one of the bands. I went principally to see
The Raging Pucies (warning: explicit content). They were amazing. It's interesting how having your friends in a band transforms it from being ridiculously bad to just ridiculous. I could have been their bassist but refused upon the startling realization that I have standards. Nevertheless, seeing them up there, I did suffer a twinge of regret.
The other band playing that was really good was
Meat Rainbow. Good garage rock kind of stuff. They were just plain good, actual professional-like. After the show we went back to Gabo's place and hung out for a while, and then we went our separate ways.
On Tuesday I went to see The Shins with Gabo at the Electric Factory. It was a really good show. The opening band, Viva Voce, was also pretty decent, although a little bothersome. They started out having some tech issues - the drummer's mic was all messed up. After they fixed that, there was some weird feedback issue in the bass frequencies while they were playing that made the low-end intense enough to make it a little hard to breath at times. Very loud, and we were pretty close to the front. It was also bothersome because you could very clearly hear some bass playing on the songs, yet all there was on stage was the drummer/occasional guitarist and the lead guitarist. It confounded me.
The Shins were really good. It was one of the few occasions in live music where the mixing was really good. I could actually distinguish the instruments, which is pretty good considering there were two or three guitars, bass, drums, and one or two keyboards. They were also really tight. Honestly, I had pretty low expectations, just because for some reason the way the Shins sound on their records made me think they'd disappoint live. Quite the contrary. It's a really nice thing when a band can bring something to a live show that isn't there on the albums.
Friday night I had my first haircut in over a year and a half. I'm not really sure what made me do it, exactly. I've been thinking seriously about getting one and talking about it a lot, but hadn't really come close to overcoming my inertia. But for whatever reason, I ate dinner and then went into the bathroom with a pair of scissors and grabbed a hunk of hair and started cutting. Five minutes later and I declared it to be done. I've done a little bit extra since then, just trying to even it out a bit, but the funny thing is, it's honestly probably the best haircut I've ever gotten. I've gotten a lot of compliments on it, which feels very nice.
It feels amazing to have short hair, it's just such a relief in a lot of ways. It means I won't get food in it when I eat. I (probably) won't get mistaken for a female (as much). (Which I almost regret, since I find it very entertaining indeed.) It cuts my time in the shower to nearly half, as well as my shampoo usage. I don't get it caught in coat zippers or car doors. It's great.
Yesterday was St. Patrick's Day and my friend Rita's eighteenth birthday. I took a train into Philly and hung out with Rachel for a couple of hours and then we took a taxi to the Clown House for Rita's birthday party.
I'm not good at parties. I never have been, and I suspect I never will be. I'm a wallflower by nature and loud music and strange people tend to make me retreat farther into my head rather than bring me out of myself. Nevertheless, I had a pretty good time, better than I expected. There were a few really great surreal moments, like when someone sat down on the couch next to me, picked up a five-string banjo that happened to be resting nearby, and started playing classical music on it.
Rachel and I had a fight at the party but it turned out all right, I think. We don't have a lot of fights, which is nice, but when we do they usually get resolved decently. I managed to relax a little and got involved in some interesting conversations. Those are stories for another time, I think.
After the party, Rachel and I went back to her place where we hung out for another couple of hours before she went to bed and I went to couch (voluntarily; there was a bed available but it was less convenient). My dreams last night were interesting. All there was to them was a map of Philadelphia, with red blinking lights representing taxis moving around it. I always find it disorienting when I dream in something other than the three dimensions I'm used to.
I managed to miss that it's been over two years now since this blog was started. Congratulations, to myself, or something, I suppose.
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